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Section
1: Introduction to Development, Personality, and
Stage Theories
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2: Motor and Cognitive Development
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3: Erikson’s Stages of Psychosocial Development
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4: Freud’s Stages of Psychosexual Development
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5: Freud's Structural and Topographical Model
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6: Freud's Ego Defense Mechanisms
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7: Kohlberg’s Stages of Moral Development
Ego
Defense Mechanisms
We
stated earlier that the ego's job was to satisfy the
id's impulses, not offend the moralistic character
of the superego, while still taking into
consideration the reality of the situation. We
also stated that this was not an easy job.
Think of the id as the 'devil on your shoulder' and
the superego as the 'angel of your shoulder.'
We don't want either one to get too strong so we
talk to both of them, hear their perspective and
then make a decision. This decision is the ego
talking, the one looking for that healthy balance. Before
we can talk more about this, we need to understand
what drives the id, ego, and superego.
According to Freud, we only have two drives; sex and
aggression. In other words, everything we do
is motivated by one of these two drives. Sex,
also called Eros or the Life force, represents our
drive to live, prosper, and produce offspring.
Aggression, also called Thanatos or our Death force,
represents our need to stay alive and stave off
threats to our existence, our power, and our
prosperity. Now
the ego has a difficult time satisfying both the id
and the superego, but it doesn't have to do so
without help. The ego has some tools it can
use in its job as the mediator, tools that help
defend the ego. These are called Ego
Defense Mechanisms or Defenses. When
the ego has a difficult time making both the id and
the superego happy, it will employ one or more of
these defenses:
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DEFENSE
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DESCRIPTION
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EXAMPLE
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denial
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arguing
against an anxiety provoking stimuli by
stating it doesn't exist
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denying
that your physician's diagnosis of cancer is
correct and seeking a second opinion
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displacement
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taking
out impulses on a less threatening target
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slamming
a door instead of hitting as person, yelling
at your spouse after an argument with your
boss
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intellectualization
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avoiding
unacceptable emotions by focusing on the
intellectual aspects
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focusing
on the details of a funeral as opposed to
the sadness and grief
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projection
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placing
unacceptable impulses in yourself onto
someone else
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when
losing an argument, you state "You're
just Stupid;" homophobia
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rationalization
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supplying
a logical or rational reason as opposed to
the real reason
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stating
that you were fired because you didn't kiss
up the the boss, when the real reason was
your poor performance
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reaction
formation
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taking
the opposite belief because the true belief
causes anxiety
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having
a bias against a particular race or culture
and then embracing that race or culture to
the extreme
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regression
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returning
to a previous stage of development
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sitting
in a corner and crying after hearing bad
news; throwing a temper tantrum when you
don't get your way
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repression
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pulling
into the unconscious
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forgetting
sexual abuse from your childhood due to the
trauma and anxiety
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sublimation
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acting
out unacceptable impulses in a socially
acceptable way
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sublimating
your aggressive impulses toward a career as
a boxer; becoming a surgeon because of your
desire to cut; lifting weights to release
'pent up' energy
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suppression
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pushing
into the unconscious
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trying
to forget something that causes you anxiety
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Ego
defenses are not necessarily unhealthy as you can
see by the examples above. In face, the lack
of these defenses, or the inability to use them
effectively can often lead to problems in life.
However, we sometimes employ the defenses at the
wrong time or overuse them, which can be equally
destructive.
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